Splitting the Baby: Insights from History’s First Family Law Case

The Original Custody Dispute

In the Book of Kings, two women came before King Solomon, each claiming to be the mother of a baby. With no witnesses and no clear evidence, Solomon faced what we might now call a "he said, she said" dispute—something all too familiar to modern courts.

His solution was shocking. He called for a sword and announced that the baby would be split in two, with half given to each woman.

One woman agreed. The other begged the king to give the child to her rival—so the baby could live.

In that moment, Solomon declared that the second woman was the true mother. Not because of DNA. Not because of documentation. But because she showed she was willing to sacrifice everything for the good of her child.

What This Means in Family Court Today

Centuries later, the setting has changed—no swords or kings—but the fundamental principle remains the same: Judges are still looking for the parent who puts the child first.

In every custody case, Texas courts are guided by a single overriding standard: the best interest of the child. And just like in Solomon’s court, judges are often faced with competing narratives, emotional testimonies, and incomplete pictures.

What helps them cut through the noise? Actions that reveal character—and commitment.

What Judges Are Watching For

Modern family court judges may not stage dramatic tests, but they pay close attention to behaviors that signal whether a parent is acting out of love… or ego. Here are some real-world examples of what might “split the baby” today:

• Refusing to speak negatively about the other parent—even when it's tempting

• Being flexible with visitation schedules to accommodate the child’s needs

• Supporting the child’s relationship with the other parent, instead of undermining it

• Following court orders and showing up prepared—punctual, respectful, and organized

• Focusing on what’s best for the child, not what “hurts” the other parent

These small actions speak volumes. They demonstrate that a parent is not just fighting to win—but striving to do what’s right.

Prepare to Lead with Strength and Compassion

Custody cases are emotionally charged and deeply personal. But winning isn’t about tearing the other side down—it’s about showing the court that you’re the parent who puts the child first.

At Looney Law, we understand both the emotional and strategic sides of custody disputes. We’ll help you craft a legal strategy that demonstrates your commitment to your child’s well-being—and makes your case clear to the court.

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